You've carried impossible burdens with grace. You've learned to compartmentalize pain so you could function, lead, protect. But here's what no one tells you about grief after service:
Loss hits differently when you've served. The brotherhood bonds that can't be explained to civilians. The survivor's guilt that lives in your chest. The unique ache of losing someone who understood your service without needing a single word of explanation.
Traditional grief support wasn't designed for hearts that have carried the responsibility of protecting others. It misses the mark because it doesn't understand the sacred complexity of what you've experienced. However, the evidence-based program, THE GRIEF RECOVERY METHOD is different. It was founded and created by a Vietnam Veteran named John James (1944-2021). This is the program I walk with you through, alongside 8 of your brothers and sisters in arms.
This Is Your Moment
I'm opening something different. Something that honors both your service and your humanity. Something that meets you exactly where you are.
Veterans-Only Online Grief Recovery Group
Starting September 17th, 2025
9 Wednesdays | 6:30 PM CST | Sacred Virtual Space on Google Meet
Evidence-Based Recovery
Not therapy. Not endless circles. Proven grief recovery work designed to help you complete your relationship with loss.
Intimate Brother/Sisterhood
Only 9 spots. Because deep healing happens in tight circles where every voice matters and every story is witnessed.
Mission-Focused Healing
A structured approach that honors your military mindset while creating space for the authentic emotional work grief demands.
Holiday Preparation
Complete by November 12thâyou'll navigate the holidays with tools, not just hope.
This isn't about getting over your loss. It's about transforming your relationship with it. By the time we complete this journey together, you'll have the ability to:
â Process loss without getting trapped in endless loops
â Honor your fallen while fully engaging with your living
â Navigate holiday seasons without emotional landmines
â Transform grief from enemy to ally
The Truth About Veterans and Healing
You've been trained to push through. To compartmentalize. To carry what others cannot carry. These are your strengthsâand they can also be the very things that keep you stuck in grief.
What I know after years of this work is that veterans don't need to be convinced they deserve healing. They need a space that honors their service while meeting their grief with the same courage they brought to their mission. As a daughter of a Vietnam Veteran, veteran myself (OIF II, Iraq, Combat Medic), spouse of a veteran, and a long family history of veterans, I have been a witness to struggle; my own and that of others that often goes unspoken.
This group exists because you've earned the right to heal alongside people who don't need you to explain what it means to serve. Who understand that your grief carries the weight of brotherhood, sacrifice, and a calling that goes deeper than career.
Investment in Your Transformation
Complete 9-Week Program
Available through August 31st, 2025
Only 9 spots available.
Deep healing happens in intimate circles, not crowded rooms. This group is designed to create the brotherhood bond essential for this level of transformation.
You've invested everything in serving others. This is your moment to invest in serving the part of you that needs healing, hope, and witnessed transformation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Beyond week 2, the program is non-refundable whether you choose to attend all 9 sessions or not. The cancellation policy is as such that, should the client decide to drop out on or before week 2, all but $170 will be refunded.
Should the client not show up for two sessions (whether consecutive or not), the client will be dropped from the program, and the investment will apply to a future program, at which time the client will need to begin at week 1.
Ready to Transform Your Relationship with Grief?
If you're reading these words, something inside you knows it's time. Time to stop carrying this alone. Time to honor your loss in a space that understands the sacred weight of service.
This isn't about moving on. It's about moving forwardâwith your whole heart, your full story, and the tools to transform what has felt like your greatest burden into your deepest source of strength.
Learn About Your Guide
Victoria is a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, Reiki Master, Certified Biofield Tuning Practitioner, Certified YouMap®ď¸ Coach, podcast host of the top 3% podcast, Grieving Voices, and self-published author. More importantly, she's a fellow veteran, serving in OIF II, Iraq as a combat medic with the NDARNG. The 141st Eng. BN received the nickname, The Trailblazers, as the job of the 141st was to find roadside bombs along the MSR from Baghdad to Tikrit.
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